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Selasa, 20 April 2010

My Future Plans

MY FUTURE PLANS

        This time, I want to tell you about my future plans. Actually all of you have many plans in your life. Maybe you will be a lecturer, an author, or another profession. I think, all of you must have plans in your future because if you don't have plans, you will feel confuse what will you do in the next time or in the future. So I am sure, all of people have many plans in their life.
        I also have many plans in my life. Firstly, because I am a student in Sanata Dharma University and I choose English Education Study Program, I hope I can finish my study as soon as possible. Actually in last semester, I feel disappointed with myself. I have bad result about my study in last semester. But now I have spirit again to study hard so I will finish my study quickly. My next plan after I finish my study is I will look for a job. Because of I come from Borneo, maybe I want to back in Borneo and find a job in Borneo. I hope that I will be a teacher in junior high school or senior high school. Of course, I also hope can be a good teacher to my students.
        After I find a job, of course I can get money by myself. So I want to make my family happy especially my parents. I hope I can invite my parents to go to another country in this world. We can hang out together and feel enjoy with our life.We also can see many scenery in other place. So I will work hard to get my dream.
        Then if I success to get a job, of course I also think to find a husband. I hope I can find a good man and a christian man. I think that if he doesn’t handsoime, it’s no problem for me. Good looking isn’t important for me. The most important is he is a responsible man and he always love me and my family. Besides, he also can accept my family.
        But my family have opinion about who is my husband later. My family always say that I must find a Chinese man. Because I am a Chinese so my husband must Chinese too. Actually I still confuse about my family opinion. Why I must find a Chinese man? If I love another ethnic but not a Chinese, what I must doing? Beside that, my parents also say to me I must know about who are his parents? Are his parents good or not? If his parents aren’t good, my parents never want to allow me get married with him. My parents say that if his parents not good of course his son not a good man too. So there are many condition to find a husband for me. I very love my family especially my parents, so I hope I can find a Chinese man and my parents allow me to get married with him.
        After I success to get a husband, I have a dream to have children. Because I think I can’t be happy if I don’t have children. Of course my parents also want to have grandchildren. So I hope I have three children. One boy and two girls. Finally if I have a husband and children, I hope I can be happy family and always love each other. Ok, that’s all my future plans and I hope can be real in my life.

6 komentar:

Tiara Sheva mengatakan...

Hmm...vivi, your parents' opinion is same with mine.
I think it has been a tradition where every parent wants us to marry a man who has the same race with us. However, I actually really want to marry American / European guy (u can read on my writing) and I've said that to my parents hehe...
They actually don't forbid me.
However, if I say that I want to marry to Indonesian people ( I mean orang pribumi), they definitely forbid me. It's because their culture and ours are completely different, Vi.
Though in fact American/European culture is also different with Chinese tradition, I think it will not be a big problem like if we marry Indonesian hehe...

vievie mengatakan...

But I never want to marry with American/Europe people.
I only want to marry with Indonesian people. Because if I love him, it's no problem to me to marry with him..he..

Oktavia Setiyawati Nugroho mengatakan...

eeeeeeeemmmmmmmmmmm................ If you want to go many countries,, pleeeasee... invite me to go together... hahahahha

L~Fr33da Poetry mengatakan...

I think about your husband later. Just follow your heart.. don't hesitant with your conscience.^0o^

You did mengatakan...

You are too young to talk about who is your husband. Let it flows... I just want to say, if your are going to marry, don't forget to invite me. hehehe :p

karina lega ayu mengatakan...

good luck vivi !! i hope you can get the Chinese men as soon as possible !! ;D